Last week I wrote about some of my frustrations….don’t get me wrong. I wouldn’t trade my job as a stay at home mommy for all the money in the world. I LOVE being home with my boys….but like any job, there are going to be times when frustrations rise up, and I have to reevaluate the things we are doing to see if I can key it down just a bit. With Jacob being sick this week, we’ve been home more (I love days when I can just be home and not go anywhere), and I’ve had a bit of time to think and reevaluate and reset some things.
It’s so easy to run the rat race every single day, just scraping through the maze of events, not really “getting it” because of all the clutter taking up our lives.
This week has afforded me some real bonding time with my boys, without the added stressors of having to be somewhere, having to get this, this, and this done for school, and honestly, I don’t want it to change. Jacob and I have played many a rousing game of Battleship and Uno, and he’s getting to be quite the champion. Jaden has had many a game of monster chase the baby games, giggling and laughing the whole way. So, you ask, how am I going to keep the peace and the tranquility that this week, albeit a hard week for Jacob, has afforded us? I’ve really taken a hard look at our schedule, and I took the advice of a friend. I asked God how He wanted me to work out our homeschool schedule. How does He want it to be? Then I moved and shifted some things around…for example, by Friday, we are just dead to school, so I decided to make it a fun day with just an hour of core school and the rest fun stuff like art and music and board games for thinking skills. Jacob loves board games, so he was thrilled with this idea.
This decluttering in my life has been a necessary thing….it’s like when you clean out a closet, and you have a feeling of satisfaction and accomplishment afterwards. Once that closet is cleaned out, you can keep it clutter free because there’s a place for everything. That’s like life….once you clear the clutter, you have a place for the important things in your life, for the things that God deems important. What is stopping you today? What kind of clutter is hindering you from having the joyous walk that is available to you as a wife and mommy? Is it spiritual clutter? Is it physical clutter? Is it clutter that you’ve been unwilling to clean out up until now? What are you missing out on because of the clutter that is blocking your path? Get rid of it! Rework things, and clean out! A time to gain, And a time to lose; A time to keep, And a time to throw away- Ecclesiastes 3:6.
