SYL: New Horizons for Children, Inc.

Dan and I have always talked about adoption, and it’s always been something that has tugged at our hearts….it’s one of those things that just won’t let us alone.  Last week, as I was reading one of my newsletters that I get, I noticed this organization listed, and so I clicked over to it, as it sounded really interesting.  I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw exactly what this organization does, and I’m excited to write about them.  The organization is New Horizons for Children, Inc.

New Horizons for Children, Inc., is an international, Christian-based hosting agency that helps families to host children in their homes for about four weeks; they bring children over to the U.S. twice a year, one of those times being the summer.  They place these children with Christian families who can not only teach them about America and immerse them in a loving family, but a family that can teach that child what the love of a Heavenly Father means.  These children come from Eastern Europe, from the countries of Latvia, Russia, and Ukraine.

LeAnn Dakake is the director of New Horizons and actually has adopted four children from Russia.  Twice a year, she travels with a team to Eastern Europe, where she visits orphanages.  Her purpose in going is to find and interview children, so that she can figure out which children will be signed up for the hosting program for that year.  It takes much observation and a lot of difficult decision making to do this, as there are just so many children who are orphaned; the number is staggering.  Many of these children face obstacles and challenges that ordinary children don’t face, especially when it comes to self-esteem, and LeAnn has to carefully choose the children that have a quality of resilience about them.  Along with interviewing children, these teams also take gifts and aid with them, in the form of clothing, shoes, school supplies, etc.  They rely on the orphanage to tell them what is most needed.  Prayer is a constant ingredient in this decision making process.

Hosting families agree to host these children either during the summer or over the Christmas holidays for 4-5 weeks.  These families must be Christian families and must be active members of a local church.  It’s important that the family life be healthy, as these children need the life-giving support that a family can give.  For a family to host a child, the cost is $2500; if that child has siblings, the cost for hosting siblings is $2400.  These costs include the airfare and travel expenses, etc., that it takes to bring these children to the U.S.  Donations that are given to New Horizons are often put towards sibling expenses or even special needs children who might not otherwise get to participate in an opportunity like this.

How can you help?  You can help through fundraising or even making a donation.  New Horizons suggests setting up an Orphan Angel Tree, which will help collect gifts for these children.  LeAnn and her team can then take these gifts when they travel to Eastern Europe twice a year.  Of course, there are other fundraising ideas that you could implement, as well.  You can even make a donation to support this organization and the children/families it serves.  If your employer matches donations, it might be a good idea to get them involved.  If you would rather be on the front lines, your family might consider becoming a host family.  There is an application process to do so.

For me personally, I think this is definitely something we will consider doing in the future.  It would be so difficult to see that child go back to the orphanage when our time was up, but I can’t imagine missing an opportunity like this.  I had never actually heard of anything like this before, besides foreign exchange students.  I didn’t know it was even possible to host orphaned children in your home like this.  What a great avenue for many children to eventually become adopted….New Horizons says that normally only 20% of our hosting families go into hosting with an idea of adoption. However, generally 80% or more of our children do end up being adopted by their host family or someone they met while staying with their host family through neighbors, extended family, church members of the host family’s church, or others who found out about the program while in process. For this reason, each family who applies to host is considered a potential adopting family and the approval process for hosting is very similar to the approval process for adoption.  Keep in mind that New Horizons is only a hosting agency, not an adoption agency.  You can follow New Horizons on Facebook.

Remember to shine your light!

SYL: Treasures Interview

A couple of weeks ago, I featured an organization that helps women who are trapped in the sex industry….this organization was called Treasures. Below is an interview with Harmony Dust, founder of Treasures:
1) How does a person, who would like to start a ministry in this field, even go about approaching the strip clubs? Are the strip clubs welcoming to this, or are they very standoffish?

It is tough to cover the scope of this question in a few sentences. We actually hold trainings for people interested in starting a strip club outreach where we answer this question over the course of a weekend. But the bottom line is that the clubs are, and will be welcoming, as long as you go in with a relationship building approach and truly respect and value each and every person you encounter. This is true of the women as well as the door guys and managers. The other thing I would say is to make sure that you are covered in prayer.

2) How would a woman, who’s never been in this type of situation, get started in a ministry like Treasures? Are the girls open to listening to someone who’s not been where they’ve been?

We have plenty of women on our team that do not have a background in the industry and there is definitely a place for them! I have found that some of the girls we reach are actually relieved to talk to someone they call “normal”. I have had some girls tell me that it is so nice to talk to someone that isn’t in the business for a change. On the other hand, we sometimes have women express apprehension about getting peer mentoring from someone who has never been in the business. Usually the apprehension boils down to an insecurity about being judged. As long as the volunteer/staff can show and express that while she may not have walked in her shoes, she knows what it means to need grace and is not coming from an “Oh my gosh, how could you do such and such” place, they are able to make a great connection.

3) What is your advice on helping to prevent young girls from being “sucked in” to the sex industry? How can we best fight this industry?

Because the reasons women enter sex industry are varied, the answer has many layers to it as well. Because we know that there is such a high rate of sexual abuse among women in the sex industry, I believe that early intervention for victims of sexual abuse is needed. When a victim is identified, it is important that she (he) has a safe place to talk about these experiences (ie counseling, support groups, a school counselor etc). This will help reduce the shame and isolation they feel. Also, hopefully, they will be less likely to connect their sexuality with their self-worth.

Another way that we can prevent young women from being lured into the industry is through raising awareness. Both regarding the stories (and pain) that women who have been in the industry experience, and regarding the tactics of pimps and traffickers that prey on vulnerable young girls.

In terms of raising awareness, Just an FYI, on our new site, launching in a few weeks, we will have a section with information on pimping and trafficking. This will dispel some of the myths about trafficking. For now, you can look at the Stats section for some information that will shed light on the women in the industry.

For more info, you can check out the Treasures website.

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